They are like children sitting in the market place,
calling to their friends:
"We have played merrily on our flutes;
but you would not dance, or sing.
We have played a dirge;
but you have refused to be sad."
John, the forerunner, came and lived among you in great austerity. Everyone said:
"He must be possessed of a demon."
Now the Son of Man has come to you, enjoying life, and you say:
"He is a drunkard and a glutton,
and the friend of sinners!"
and the friend of sinners!"
With such brilliance you justify your own inconsistency."
--Jesus
A pastor friend once observed, "This is a great job...if it weren't for people!" I often wonder if Jesus ever felt that way.
My pastor friend recently resigned after twenty-five years at the same church.
About a year after closing down and selling our church building in 2007, I asked my wife if there was anything she missed about "church life." "Not that I can think of," was her heartfelt reply. While in ministry we had endured much criticism, divisiveness, slander and pain. No amount of bible teaching on unity, love, service, "one-anothering", or walking in the Spirit can take the place of simple obedience!
One of the most consistent areas of disobedience I find in the church is the refusal to confront an offender and thus resolve conflict. Instead, the wounded goes to others to salve their hurt by justifying their cowardice in a crowd.
Jesus gave a simple formula for resolving conflict:
fick·le
ˈfikəl/
adjective
- 1.changing frequently, esp. as regards one's loyalties, interests, or affection."Web patrons are a notoriously fickle lot, bouncing from one site to another on a whim"
synonyms: capricious, changeable, variable, volatile, mercurial;
My pastor friend recently resigned after twenty-five years at the same church.
About a year after closing down and selling our church building in 2007, I asked my wife if there was anything she missed about "church life." "Not that I can think of," was her heartfelt reply. While in ministry we had endured much criticism, divisiveness, slander and pain. No amount of bible teaching on unity, love, service, "one-anothering", or walking in the Spirit can take the place of simple obedience!
One of the most consistent areas of disobedience I find in the church is the refusal to confront an offender and thus resolve conflict. Instead, the wounded goes to others to salve their hurt by justifying their cowardice in a crowd.
Jesus gave a simple formula for resolving conflict:
- If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you
and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. - But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses.
- If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.
Choose wisely.